I thought a Californian porn star wanted to have a serious relationship and build a life together - but it turned out to be a scammer who conned me out of £10,000
A disabled man with no feet and one arm says he was conned out of £10,000 by a scammer posing as his celebrity crush - a Californian porn star.
A disabled man with no feet and one arm says he was conned out of £10,000 by a scammer posing as his celebrity crush - a Californian porn star.
Ben McEvansoneya, 36, started receiving messages on Instagram from someone pretending to be adult actress Nicolette Shea.
He was feeling lonely and suffering from low self-esteem after a recent break up - so just wanted someone to talk to, he says.
But things progressed, Ben and the fake busty beauty Nicolette started talking about starting a serious relationship and building a life together.
The scammer even said they wanted to move to the UK to be with Ben.
However, a couple months in, Nicolette started demanding cash - claiming she needed it for funeral arrangements after her fathers death.
Ben, who had his right arm and both feet amputated after suffering meningitis and septicemia as a baby, sent the scammer around £200 each month - all from his disability benefits.
He occasionally sent larger one-off sums too and estimates that in the year the relationship lasted he was scammed out of £10,000.
A scammer posed as California porn star Nicolette Shea to con a man out of £10,000
Ben McEvansoneya, 36, started receiving messages on Instagram from someone pretending to be adult actress Ms Shea (who is seen in a photo on Mr McEvansoneyas phone)
Ben eventually started to notice the red flags and cut off communications with the scammer.
But despite contacting the police, he says, he hasnt been able to get his money back.
The real Nicolette is a 37-year-old porn star from California. She has more than 2.4million followers on X, formerly known as Twitter.
Ben said: I feel humiliated by it now but at the time I thought it was real. I was in a low place and had low self-esteem. I guess I was just naive.
I was lonely and I wanted someone to talk to. It really was very traumatic because I had to deal with the emotional impacts and the financial impacts.
Im disabled and so rely on benefits and the money I was sending meant I was struggling to live properly. I actually had a nervous breakdown.
Ben says he and Nicolette were messaging for around a year. But whenever he asked for a phone or a video call, she would say no.
And then when he started seeing articles online about scammers he grew suspicious.
Ben eventually started to notice the red flags and cut off communications with the scammer
Ben said: I noticed that they would have an excuse every time I asked for a phone call or video call.
And I actually started coming across articles online about scams. So I just cottoned onto the fact that that was the situation.
Due to the stress of what happened, Ben moved out of his home in Bradford, West Yorkshire and back to Taunton, Somerset, where he grew up - so he could start his life again.
He says he contacted the police about the scam and they launched an investigation - but the scammer couldnt be found.
I confronted the scammer but they obviously denied it and then the conversation went dead, Ben said.
When I spoke to police, they told me that these scams are happening a lot - particularly romance and celebrity ones.
These scammers prey on the vulnerable and unfortunately, I was one of those people at the time.
Its sad that people take advantage of other peoples good nature.
Although he is embarrassed about what happened, Ben wants to share his story to stop other people falling for similar scams.
He said: Its embarrassing but I hope I can help other people become more aware of things like this.
There are tell-tale signs like refusing to have a video call or asking for money. These are all red flags. I just didnt notice them at the time.
Mr McEvansoneya is not the first person to have been duped by online scammers posing as celebs.
In December last year, a 57-year-old Sussex woman was conned by a cheat posing as Hollywood star, Kevin Costner.
Rachel (pictured), 57, from Sussex, thought she had won the jackpot when Kevin Costner reached out to her over Instagram after she posted a comment on his profile
Deepfake scams use media snippets to create realistic fake recordings of any given individual, and in this instance it was Yellowstone actor Kevin Costner (pictured)
The woman, called Rachel, fell for Kevin after the pair shared their life stories over messages, realistic lifelike voice notes, and video chats.
However, the messages were crafted by an imposter, who used artificial intelligence technology to create a deepfake phoine calls, voice notes and video recording resembling the star.
In a similar con, a 62-year-old woman from Colechester, Essex, opened up in April about how she was catfished by a man pretending to be Gary Barlow.
Janet Smith genuinely believed she was talking to the Take That singer for about a week, after she added him as a friend on Facebook.
The fake Barlow bombarded her with compliments and messages and said he had split up - which Janet took to mean from his wife.
Janet, who works in a pizza restaurant. believed shed added the popstar last month, and was talking to him all week - sometimes from 9am all the way through to 3am the following morning.
She became suspicious when he started to ask for money after a few days and realised the man she was speaking to couldnt be the real Barlow.
He was eventually unmasked as a 24-year-old man from Nigeria.
Speaking out to raise awareness of the scam, Janet said: Its so sad because hes been saying to me "I love you".
I said "I am 62 - youre 24". Im saddened because he is poor and hes got no money.
