I lost friends when I took my kids out of school to live off-grid in a 9ft horsebox - but I dont regret a thing
A mother says she lost friends after taking her kids out of school and moving her family of four to live off-grid in a 9ft old horsebox - but she has no regrets.
A mother says she lost friends after taking her kids out of school and moving her family of four to live off-grid in a 9ft old horsebox - but she has no regrets.
Angie Burkey, 45, was heartbroken when her youngest son Fox Burkey began to struggle with being in a classroom due to his autism and eventually opted to take him out of school when he was six.
The mother-of-two decided to home educate Fox herself, using the flexibility of being self-employed, as she runs a holiday cleaning business with her husband Danny Burkey.
Angie and Danny, also 45, soon realised the only thing tying them to Cornwall was their rented house and so took their eldest son Phoenix out of school too.
She said: He liked school actually, he just ended up getting out because it was easier and we could travel.
After an absolutely horrific winter living completely off-grid in a small touring caravan, the family decided to upgrade to a 40-year-old horsebox that they bought for £1,900 and spent another £2,000 renovating.
Angie and Danny in front of their 40-year-old horsebox with sons Phoenix, 12, and Fox, nine
Fox Burkey, nine, began to struggle with being in a classroom due to his autism and eventually opted to take him out of school when he was six
The family kitted out the unusual living space with solar panels, running water, a fridge, a freezer, a TV, an air fryer, and a wood burner that can double as a pizza oven
After an absolutely horrific winter living completely off-grid in a small touring caravan, the family decided to upgrade to a 40-year-old horsebox that they bought for £1,900 and spent another £2,000 renovating
The family now live in the 9ft by 4ft horsebox 24/7 - squeezing in the two adults, two children and even greyhound cross called Creeper.
They kitted out the unusual living space with solar panels, running water, a fridge, a freezer, a TV, an air fryer, and a wood burner that can double as a pizza oven.
Now the family live in the horsebox full time, spending half the year on their plot in Cornwall, working cleaning holiday lets to save money so they can spend their winters travelling the continent for the other six months of the year.
However not everyone understood their decision and they found judgement from others and lost a lot of friends - though has made new friends with those who appreciate their off-grid lifestyle.
Angie said: We spend six months working in Cornwall doing all of the holiday lets. Weve worked really hard all summer, the boys worked with us.
We save all our money, we dont spend a lot when were back in the UK. We try and live quite frugally. Then we come out here and live and dont work.
All our money is our own, so everything we earn we can almost save it.
Angie and Danny live in the horsebox full time with their children, spending half the year on their plot in Cornwall, working cleaning holiday lets to save money so they can spend their winters travelling the continent for the other six months of the year
Before the family upgraded to the horsebox, they had an absolutely horrific winter living completely off-grid in a small touring caravan
The family bought the 40-year-old horsebox for £1,900 and spent another £2,000 renovating
Phoenix and Fox doing schoolwork while out on the road
The family even has space for a greyhound cross called Creeper
The family live in the horsebox year round, and use a wood burning stove to cook and keep warm
Not everyone understood the familys decision and they found judgement from others and lost a lot of friends
The freezer and fridge inside the horsebox
Danny driving the old horsebox on one of the familys adventures
Angie has been home-educating her children, now aged nine and 12, in the horsebox for around three years and said she has found they learn best from life itself
Were completely free, we can do what we want when we want.
Its hard, it comes with its challenges travelling around in an old horsebox, but we cant afford to do it any other way.
Some people say how can you live like that? What if it all goes wrong?
Whats the alternative? Just sitting back home and not living?
Angie has been home-educating her children, now aged nine and 12, for around three years and said she has found they learn best from life itself.
After Fox left mainstream education, he was diagnosed with autism with PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), a subtype of autism that is defined by a refusal to comply with requests.
Angie said: Fox just couldnt go to school. We didnt know he was autistic.. He had a breakdown.
He wasnt eating, he wasnt sleeping. He couldnt cope with any of the sensory stuff like the noise at school. Just all of it.
I just thought, do you know what, hes coming out. I just researched it myself into home education.
Angie says Phoenix (pictured doing schoolwork) wants to get a van so when hes old enough he can travel with his mates
The family share their adventures on social media, where they have more than 1,700 followers
I just thought I can do this, we can legally do this.
We had to do something. We were not going to send him to school.
We were still living in a house at the time and we thought the only tie weve got is the rent on this house. So, we looked about and there was a touring caravan that was coming up for sale and it had a bit of land with it.
We thought do you know what? Lets do it.
We did one winter like that and it was absolutely horrific and we were like if were doing this we need a bigger van.
The family then bought a 40-year-old horsebox for £1,900 and spent a further £2,000 renovating the interior themselves, adding running water, a toilet, and a diesel heater as well as two single beds and two double beds.
This year they hope to travel through France, Spain and Morocco in their moving home.
Their only outgoings are £300 per month for their caravan plot in the UK, diesel, breakdown cover and food.
Fox in his bed on his computer. The horsebox has a diesel heater as well as two single beds and two double beds
Due to Foxs autism, Angie said she finds it best if she lets her children decide what and how they would like to learn, so she does not stick to a curriculum
Due to Foxs autism, Angie said she finds it best if she lets her children decide what and how they would like to learn, so she does not stick to a curriculum.
Angie said: Hes got to be in control. He has to have autonomy over everything. Its really hard. Its why it wasnt spotted, I think, at school. He was quite confident, I just didnt pick up on it.
He needed to just learn as he wanted to learn, out in the world. Hes so traumatised by school, anything that resembles a school or teaching, he just shuts down. He just doesnt cope.
Hes thriving now, hes so clever. He just learns, but he learns how he wants to learn.
Hes our navigator. Whenever we go anywhere hes working out the miles and the amount of diesel were putting in the truck and how much its costing. He does all of that and hell just do it because he wants to do it, thats how he learns.
He understands different languages, hes understanding Spanish way more than I am. Hes absolutely thriving.
Theyre covering Maths, theyre covering Geography as we travel, History as were going around. Its all covered. It just gets covered by living.
Angie said that not everybody in her life understands her decision to take her children out of school, with many concerned about her childrens socialisation
The horsebox has solar panels that is uses to generate electricity
We follow their interests. If they want to look something up or research something then well do that. So we just listen to them and engage with them.
All you need to do is be engaged with your child. Just listen to your child, be engaged, be connected, they will learn. They are learning all of the time. You just need to sit and pay attention really. Thats our belief.
It was definitely the best decision without a doubt. I wish wed done it sooner. I just think we should have never sent our youngest to school but we didnt know he was autistic.
Since living off-grid, the 45-year-old has started documenting her familys journey on an Instagram account, @neurodivergentlifeontheroad, and using her platform to raise awareness for Autism with PDA.
Angie said that not everybody in her life understands her decision to take her children out of school, with many concerned about her childrens socialisation.
Angie said: We face judgement but weve also met more people that are all home educating their kids or living off grid.
Those people are gone because they dont understand us and now weve met a whole load of new people.
A surfboard strapped to the top of the horsebox while on an adventure in a foreign country
An airfryer in the horsebox which is used for the familys meals
We lost a lot of people and its been hard and it can be really lonely. But weve always said its the best for the boys. The boys are thriving and nobody can question that, nobody. So thats all that matters to us.
Our eldest is already talking about his van. He wants to get a van so when hes old enough he can travel with his mates.
Hes so confident in himself and approaching adults. Hes not just interacting with kids his own age like they do when theyre in school. You know, theyre in a class of 30 kids all the same, they speak when theyre spoken to and theyre all a bit shy.
Hes got a massive circle of friends. Hes more sociable now because hes not restricted to just socialising in that small circle.
When he was at school he wouldnt go up to an adult and speak to an adult. He wasnt confident within himself, whereas now, because hes out in the world, he sees all walks of life, he sees everybody, hell speak confidently.
Our eldest is dyslexic and hes got ADHD but hes massively into art and design and skateboarding. Hes a sponsored skateboarder. Since he came out of school, hes got a sponsorship for skateboarding.
He always struggled because he was dyslexic but he was more academically behind.
He liked school actually, he just ended up getting out because it was easier and we could travel. But he wasnt struggling as much.
Some parents dont even get that. Its not everybodys cup of tea and its not how everybody thinks you should live but it works for us and it is what we want.
We wouldnt go back. I cant even imagine it.
